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DM Anyone Who Skips the Action You Want

DM Anyone Who Skips the Action You Want is a communities tactic for getting your first users: When a new member joined but didn't post an intro or take the desired action, she personally DM'd them to nudge them into doing it.

It's a strong fit for teams of almost any kind, and works especially well for communities, network products. As a communities play, plan for low effort and expect results to show up quickly, all grounded in 1 linked primary source.

CommunitiesLow effortFast

Why does communities work for this?

A direct personal nudge converts passive joiners into participants who then create content for everyone else.

The exact steps (5)

The full step-by-step this founder ran, what they posted, where, and in what order, plus the watch-outs, is part of the library.

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Sources

Works for
Any / universal

Frequently asked

How is the "DM Anyone Who Skips the Action You Want" tactic verified?
It is drawn from 1 primary source — a real founder write-up or interview, not generic advice. It is linked in the Sources section above so you can read the original account yourself.
How much effort is it and how fast are results?
It is low effort, and results tend to be fast.
Where can I see the exact step-by-step?
The full step-by-step a founder ran, documented via Source — IndieHackers, is in the paid library.

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